I have a connection file done up with PDO. When I try to connect to my live database, I get an error:

SQLSTATE[HY000] [2002] Connection refused.

I did everything I could think of to try to get this to work. But I keep getting:

SQLSTATE[HY000] [2002] Connection refused.

I am trying to connect to a live database with phpMyAdmin. Here's my code...

<?php
$servername = "10.xxx.x.85:3306";
$username = "nephilim42_341";
$password = "rxxxxxxxxxx3";

try {
$dbh = new PDO("mysql:host=$servername;dbname=wdv341", $username, $password);
    /*** echo a message saying we have connected ***/
    echo 'Connected to database';
    }
catch(PDOException $e)
    {
    echo $e->getMessage();
    }
?>