There are many questions and answers related to send data with ajax request in datatable jquery. But I didn't find how to send data when default datatable delete button clicked in ajax request

I know this is confusing so I show you some code and images

 $('#sample_data').on('draw.dt', function(){
  $('#sample_data').Tabledit({
   url:'action2.php',
   dataType:'json',
   columns:{
    identifier : [1, 'sub_category_id'],
    editable:[[5, 'GST'], [6, 'price'],
    [8, 'Commission'], [10, 'discount']]
   },
   restoreButton:false,
   onSuccess:function(data, textStatus, jqXHR)
   {
    if(data.action == 'delete')
    {
     $('#' + data.id).remove();
     $('#sample_data').DataTable().ajax.reload();
    }
   }
  });
 });

see this is default code of datatable jquery for edit or deleting data.

now I also show you initialized datatable jquery code

$(document).ready(function(){
    
    var dataTable = $('#sample_data').DataTable({
      "processing" : true,
      "dom": "<'row'<'col-sm-3'l><'col-sm-2'<'#selecttype'>><'col-sm-3'<'#activelist'>><'col-sm-4'f>>" +
             "<'row'<'col-sm-12't>>" +
             "<'row'<'col-sm-6'i><'col-sm-6'p>>",
      "serverSide" : true,
  "order" : [[1,"asc"]],
  "ajax" : {
    url:"action2.php",
    type:"POST",
    data: {                 <<-------------=
      fetch: "fetch",
      "status" : function(){
        try{
          console.log("trying ... ");
          return document.querySelector("#activelistbox").value;
        }catch(e){
          console.log("message "+e);
          return "Active List";
        }
      },
      "type" : function(){
        try{
          console.log("trying ... ");
          return document.querySelector("#selectbox").value;
        }catch(e){
          console.log("message "+e);
          return "All";
        }
      }
    }
  }
}
};

see here I use data parameter to send data.

now I show you table image

This is table image

This is payload data payload data image

Now please tell me how can i send data