I'm trying to create a discord bot, and I'm writing the command "marry".

It is already essentially ready, from the main thing I want the confirmation of the wedding to be not a yes/no message, but a click on the reaction.

Now everything works, when entering a command, the user who clicks and responds to the proposal to marry, but not with the one who wrote the command, but with the bot.

That is, it works for me now that the author of the message (ie, a bot) and the one to whom the proposal is addressed are getting married. And it is necessary that the one who wrote the command and the user to whom it is addressed get married.

How can I fix this?

Here is my function awaitReactions:

(`Are you ready to get married?`).then(message => {
      message.react('👍').then(() => message.react('👎'));
    

      message.awaitReactions((reaction, user) => user.id == userToMarry.id && (reaction.emoji.name == '👍' || reaction.emoji.name == '👎'),
        { max: 1, time: 60000, errors: ['time'] })
      .then(collected => {
        const reaction = collected.first();
        if (reaction.emoji.name === '👎') {
      return message.channel.send('I think **no**...')}
    if (reaction.emoji.name === '👍') {
      db.set(message.author.id, { user: message.author.id, partner: userToMarry.id });
      db.set(userToMarry.id, { user: userToMarry.id, partner: message.author.id });
    message.channel.send(`${message.author} and ${userToMarry} now married!!`)
      .catch(err => {
        message.channel.send(
          `Something went wrong while trying to marry this user. ${err}`
        );
        return console.log(err)});
      }
  })
  .catch(collected => {
        message.reply('You reacted with neither a thumbs up, nor a thumbs down.');
    });
});

Full command code

const { Command } = require('discord.js-commando');
const db = require("quick.db");


module.exports = class MarryCommand extends Command {
  constructor(client) {
    super(client, {
      name: 'marry',
      memberName: 'marry',
      group: 'test',
      description: 'Marry the mentioned user',
      guildOnly: true,
      args: [
        {
          key: 'userToMarry',
          prompt: 'Please select the member you wish to marry.',
          type: 'member'
        }
      ]
    });
  }

  run(message, { userToMarry }) {
    const exists = db.get(`${message.author.id}.user`);
    const married = db.get(`${userToMarry.id}.user`);
    if (!userToMarry) {
      return message.channel.send('Please try again with a valid user.')}
    if (exists == message.author.id) {
      return message.channel.send('You are already married!')}
    if (married == userToMarry.id) {
      return message.channel.send('This user is already married!')}
    if (userToMarry.id == message.author.id) {
      return message.channel.send('You cannot marry yourself!');
    }
    if (exists != message.author.id && married != userToMarry.id) {
    message.channel.send(`**Important announcement!**
    
    ${message.author} makes a marriage proposal ${userToMarry}
    
    Are you ready to get married?`).then(message => {
      message.react('👍').then(() => message.react('👎'));
    

      message.awaitReactions((reaction, user) => user.id == userToMarry.id && (reaction.emoji.name == '👍' || reaction.emoji.name == '👎'),
        { max: 1, time: 60000, errors: ['time'] })
      .then(collected => {
        const reaction = collected.first();
        if (reaction.emoji.name === '👎') {
      return message.channel.send('I think **no**...')}
    if (reaction.emoji.name === '👍') {
      db.set(message.author.id, { user: message.author.id, partner: userToMarry.id });
      db.set(userToMarry.id, { user: userToMarry.id, partner: message.author.id });
    message.channel.send(`${message.author} and ${userToMarry} now married!!`)
      .catch(err => {
        message.channel.send(
          `Something went wrong while trying to marry this user. ${err}`
        );
        return console.log(err)});
      }
  })
  .catch(collected => {
        message.reply('You reacted with neither a thumbs up, nor a thumbs down.');
    });
});
}}};